Saying goodbye to my best friend, Gabby

Posted in Personal News at 9:14 pm by divinity

I had to make the decision to send my best friend on her way tonight. For 11 years, Gabby has always been there for me. Plopping down next to me on the bed, wrestling her way into my lap, delivering loving head butts, or waking me up in the morning with sandpaper kisses to the face. She’s lived in NC, OH, IL, and CA with me as I moved around. She’s been there during and after just about every serious relationship in my life. She waited patiently for me to finish 4 years of college so that she could live with me again. She put up with Annabelle and Bunki and a number of dogs to hang around. She was quite possibly one of the sweetest cats in the world. She gave so much unconditional love, treating me as if I were one of her kittens to watch over and take care of.

This evening after a beautiful sunset, we took her down to the emergency vet since she had been having significant trouble both breathing and moving and figured it was time to help her out and prevent any more discomfort. I thoroughly enjoyed the last decade or so with this cat in my life. She was always there on my bed when I came home from college or plopped at my side when I was depressed. And her last day was also nice as I got to spend 24 hours with her right by my side, all the way up until the end. I will miss the hell out of her, and I doubt I’ll ever find another cat like her.

Another good chapter in life closes…


  1. Aaron said,

    November 25, 2007 at 11:58 pm

    🙁 So sad. Even though her and I hung out only a couple times, she was such a sweet cat. 11 years and four states is a good life and she got to see and do a lot.

  2. Dad said,

    November 27, 2007 at 8:33 pm

    “God gives us love,
    Those to love, he lends us”.